The Lists w/ Eric "DJ PryceMiyagi" Harris

[00:00:01] Speaker A: I'm Leela Ree. [00:00:02] Speaker B: And I'm Nick B. [00:00:03] Speaker A: Listen, we're just two single girls from the city of Roses discussing all things love, lust, and perception. [00:00:09] Speaker B: And roses are a symbol of all things beautiful about love. [00:00:12] Speaker A: But as you know, love can get a little dirty. So we're here to talk about it. [00:00:16] Speaker B: Dirty Roses podcast starts now. [00:00:19] Speaker A: Hey, I'm Leela Ree. [00:00:20] Speaker B: And I'm Nick B. [00:00:21] Speaker A: And welcome to Dirty Roses podcast. Guess what, y'all, we gonna be addressing some that everybody be talking about lately. And we let it ponder for a second, and then we're going to bring it back. Because us being single women, we're curious. [00:00:35] Speaker B: About these things and offended about some things. [00:00:36] Speaker A: And offended about some things. Yeah. But we brought a very special guy. He is a fellow podcaster. He's a promoter, a dj, stripper, event person. [00:00:47] Speaker B: Entrepreneur. Entrepreneur. [00:00:50] Speaker C: Entrepreneur. [00:00:51] Speaker B: Let's go. Doing things. [00:00:53] Speaker A: Big things, always. [00:00:55] Speaker B: You said for 20 years. [00:00:56] Speaker C: 20 years. I started at two. [00:00:58] Speaker A: At two. [00:00:59] Speaker B: No, I've been doing this shit out. [00:01:06] Speaker C: Hello. Now 20 years. So, 2003 is when I started. That was my first event. I threw hip hop Mondays, and it just grew from there. [00:01:13] Speaker A: That is dope. Well, welcome Mr. Eric Price. DJ Price. Bianca. The man with 85 names, 85 social media. [00:01:20] Speaker C: Okay. Hello. [00:01:21] Speaker A: Okay. [00:01:21] Speaker C: I'm everywhere. They ain't never there. Remember that. [00:01:24] Speaker B: Welcome. [00:01:25] Speaker A: Thank you so much for joining. Happy to be here. Okay, so we start every episode with a story. And I guess this season has been very personal. We just told our stories at this point. Or my stories, I guess, because I got some. [00:01:36] Speaker B: Because you outside. [00:01:37] Speaker C: Okay. [00:01:39] Speaker B: She's outside. [00:01:40] Speaker A: I would say recently divorced, but you're not. It's been two years. Yeah, that part. [00:01:46] Speaker C: That part. [00:01:47] Speaker A: All right. So, as I've been dibbling, dabbling in this dating world, right, we realized that we've talked about first dates. We've talked about a few first dates that I've had, where we go on a first date. I've paid on accident. We've had first dates that were really bomb. [00:02:01] Speaker B: We've had first dates where you fall down. This is me. We're falling down some stairs. Tear some pants. [00:02:06] Speaker A: Right? [00:02:06] Speaker B: Yeah. [00:02:07] Speaker A: But I've had first dates that were trips. I've had first dates that were very nice restaurants. And then I've had, again, like, the first date that I paid for the food. So we all saw the social media post about the young lady who got driven to a cheesecake factory. Cheesecake factory. [00:02:25] Speaker B: Yeah. [00:02:25] Speaker A: I was like, should we say, yeah. [00:02:27] Speaker B: No, because this is great. [00:02:29] Speaker A: So the man drove her to the cheesecake factory. She's like, okay, cool. She's filming the whole time, right? And then he goes out to get her door, which is very gentleman like on top of everything. And she locks the door and ain't coming out and has a whole attitude about being to the cheesecake factory. Now we watch. As you watch that video more, you realize they went there because she was late, because she was getting ready. She took her time. He had plans and reservations at a nicer restaurant. And you were going to a nice restaurant, a five star restaurant. But because you were late, you all end up at the cheesecake factory. But the issue in the conversation that happened was, is the cheesecake factory not good enough? [00:03:05] Speaker B: Was that a skit, though? Because it was recorded really well. [00:03:09] Speaker A: It was recorded because she was recording as if, like, oh, I'm going on a date. And she's on live doing a whole thing. And then as he gets out, she locks the door, and she's like, now I can't believe this motherfucker took me to the cheesecake factory. [00:03:21] Speaker B: Right? And that's the part that I thought it was fake because it turned so offensive so fast. I was like, she's trying to be funny. [00:03:28] Speaker A: Everybody's trying to go viral by having these moments. I don't know if I'd want that to be my viral moment, but it is what it is, right? But with all that being said, a list circulated about where not to go first date. And in response to that, there was a list of what kind of woman not to date. Right. Because I think a lot of men were offended by the don't take me here on a first date list. And, yeah, so we're going to talk about this. But, Nick B, you had any experiences with lists and dates? [00:03:56] Speaker B: I mean, obviously with Dates, yeah, but not really with lists. I feel like I'm down to go anywhere as long as you plan it. And I'm good with cheesecake factory, if that's what we doing. It's not like I'm above cheesecake factory, because I feel like a first date. I'm trying to assess if I even like you, so I'm not tripping if you're trying to spend a lot of money or not. I've been on walks for a first date I've been to with old men that didn't have front teeth. And so then we couldn't go to dinner afterwards. That was really. [00:04:30] Speaker C: No teeth. [00:04:31] Speaker B: Well, he did, but they weren't his. [00:04:34] Speaker C: Did he pop them out? Did he have a meal at first? No. [00:04:37] Speaker B: So he was trying to avoid them popping out. And so he was like, we went on this walk. It's 02:00 in the afternoon, and I'm thinking, okay, our walk is over, right? So you're trying to maybe go grab a bite to eat. You want to get a happy hour or something? He's like, oh, well, I'm really not trying to eat right now. And I was like, why? He's like, well, because, you see, I got this bridge and the permanents that haven't arrived, and I just don't want to eat. And then they pop out, and I'm. [00:05:03] Speaker C: Like, we got to know that from the conversation. I can't find it, right? [00:05:08] Speaker B: And I was like, so just nothing then. Okay. So then I walked in my little ass on home. I was like, all right, but I was open to a free date. That's not my issue. [00:05:18] Speaker A: The walk was okay. [00:05:19] Speaker B: The walk was cool. Yeah. [00:05:20] Speaker A: So, Mr. Price, what is your experience with first dates and stuff like that? [00:05:24] Speaker C: Well, first dates for me, I feel. [00:05:27] Speaker A: Like it's about to be a whole bunch of cap happening. I'll be taking them on first class flight. [00:05:31] Speaker B: I'll be firing up the PJ that I fly myself. [00:05:34] Speaker C: No, not at all. [00:05:35] Speaker A: You forgot pilot on my list of. [00:05:39] Speaker C: I base the first date off the energy when I meet a woman. So if I'm really feeling you, and I'm really like, oh, yeah, this is it. I'm going to try to impress, right. But if I just feel like, okay, they cool? Yeah, it's going to be some low tier shit going on. 100%. [00:05:56] Speaker B: Wait, so if you cool, you getting low tier? [00:05:59] Speaker C: Yeah, cool. Low tier. [00:06:00] Speaker A: I got to date so I can smash. Because otherwise, why would you date a low tier woman? [00:06:05] Speaker C: Well, you just think to me at first impression is low tier. So I'm like, okay, it's cool, though. [00:06:11] Speaker B: Maybe I don't know what low tier means. Kind of like I didn't fucking bad. What is low tier? Because we're getting cracked on bottom shelf. [00:06:17] Speaker C: Big bottom shelf. No, when I say low tier, when I say low tier, you know what I'm saying? It's just something about you. Your energy is coming off very low tier to me. [00:06:28] Speaker A: Why go on a date with someone like that? [00:06:30] Speaker C: Because she might be cool and other. [00:06:32] Speaker B: Things might be not. You're willing to give your intuition. [00:06:35] Speaker C: I'm not about to spend no bread on you. [00:06:36] Speaker A: He plays red flags. You played the red flag. That's what he's doing. You know what I'm saying? So we're going to see if I can deal with her for about five more hours. [00:06:48] Speaker C: No cap there. But what I'm saying is that. What I'm saying is that. No, she could be real cool. But there's certain things that I'm noticing that's like. But she's cool, so I'll give it a shot. Because sometimes, even if it's some things that might not hit your standard, but they'd be cool enough, you'll give it a chance, right? [00:07:03] Speaker B: Okay. [00:07:04] Speaker C: But I'm not about to go in. [00:07:05] Speaker B: But wait, can I get a better. What is actually is low tier for you? Do you have an example of a low tier situation you've been in? [00:07:14] Speaker A: Describe somebody without telling us who it is? [00:07:16] Speaker B: Yeah, because we don't want to know. [00:07:17] Speaker A: What's a low tier example? [00:07:20] Speaker C: Well, I say low tier, so if I'm getting to know you, by the way, usually for me, the first time you kick it with me, it got to be at the crib. I'm not spending on money. [00:07:28] Speaker B: Wait a minute. Your first date needs to be at. [00:07:30] Speaker C: Your house, her house or mine. [00:07:32] Speaker A: So you typically deal with people that you know. [00:07:34] Speaker B: So you're a Netflix and chill on the first date kind of dude. [00:07:38] Speaker C: 100%. So what I'm saying is. And I'm going to tell you what, because you spending money, that's an investment. You know what I'm saying? [00:07:45] Speaker B: Okay. But then why not do the whole coffee date or a walk date? As a woman? Most of us are like, I ain't going to this man's house. I don't know him like that. This is a first date, not our third. [00:07:56] Speaker A: He ain't got no issue. [00:07:57] Speaker C: No, I ain't saying that. [00:07:58] Speaker A: Not a goddamn issue. [00:08:01] Speaker C: But what I'm saying is that. Come to the crib, fill you out, or we can go hang out in the car, whatever. But I'm not. [00:08:10] Speaker B: First of all, you are a really big red flag right now. [00:08:13] Speaker C: They're about to flame me. But I'm keeping a book. [00:08:16] Speaker B: It's me. [00:08:16] Speaker C: I'm going to keep it a buck. [00:08:17] Speaker A: Always my house or my car. [00:08:20] Speaker B: What? But wait. This is a first date. [00:08:23] Speaker C: First date. It makes sense. I'm trying to tell you. Listen, okay? Especially nowadays, in 2023, these women right now, they want a meal, okay? And they want content for social media. Cool. I'm going to give you that. I'm going to give you the content you need, but let me make it his content. We in 2023, so we're going to keep it here. It ain't old school no more. We in a different time. Right, right. So you know what I'm saying? If you cool, I'm saying I come pull up on you, we chop it up. You know what I'm saying? We get a vibe on you. But if I come to your crib and I'm keeping your house out, I. [00:08:56] Speaker B: See your room filthy and you got your. [00:09:01] Speaker C: You got the wall headboard. You know what I'm saying? You know what? You ain't got no table. The tv standards. [00:09:12] Speaker B: We eat on paper plates, first of all. Little Costco stack of paper plates. [00:09:18] Speaker C: Sometimes. [00:09:21] Speaker B: I hate no food, and I won't serve nobody on that, for real. But I'm like, I don't feel like doing dishes tonight. [00:09:28] Speaker A: Food on paper plates is thanksgiving. [00:09:30] Speaker B: I don't even like that. [00:09:31] Speaker A: Or barbecue. Okay. [00:09:32] Speaker C: Anyway, you go to the crib, she'll get you some water in the red cup. I ain't got no glazing on the glasses, baby girl. No, I'm waiting on there. [00:09:41] Speaker B: Okay, but why not something more low key but, like, casual, like a coffee date? [00:09:47] Speaker C: Because nobody drinks coffee but me, first of all, okay? [00:09:50] Speaker B: Lots of I drink. I'm a coffee date. [00:09:52] Speaker C: Right? [00:09:53] Speaker B: What about smoothies or some tea? Like, bitches get thirsty, too. They want something to drink. [00:09:58] Speaker C: They don't want to go get no coffee. They don't want to get no smoothies or no tea. [00:10:01] Speaker B: You're dating the wrong kind of girl because they sound like. [00:10:06] Speaker A: I'm not raising my hand for you. [00:10:07] Speaker B: But I'm just saying, I was like, I drink coffee, first of all. I don't even like. [00:10:11] Speaker A: In fact, I still do. I prefer a coffee date for the first day because I want to make sure I even want to spend more time with you than. [00:10:17] Speaker C: Exactly. That's your method. So my method is come to the crib. [00:10:20] Speaker A: I'll pull up. [00:10:21] Speaker C: But don't you feel like coffee date? [00:10:23] Speaker A: But that's a secret. Your house is the sacred spot. [00:10:25] Speaker B: Like, why you want all that energy in your space anyway? [00:10:28] Speaker C: Listen, my house is not sacred. [00:10:30] Speaker B: He said there's a lot of ho shit that goes down over here. [00:10:34] Speaker C: Going down in my house. [00:10:35] Speaker B: Ain't nothing sacred about it. [00:10:42] Speaker C: Oh, my God. [00:10:42] Speaker A: I was not ready for this shit, okay? [00:10:46] Speaker B: Ain't nothing clean about it. [00:10:48] Speaker C: We didn't filthy up in here. Listen, leave your standards at the dough. Okay? [00:10:53] Speaker B: But wait. Okay, so then if you are really. And maybe you're not, and this could be cool, but are you looking for a female for real, or are you just looking to smash? Because I feel like, yeah, if you're dating just to kick it and not really establish anything, then, yeah, I guess. [00:11:09] Speaker C: Well, for me, all jokes aside for me, I can usually tell from the gate if I'm feel you, if I want to even go there with you, the first couple of conversations. Okay, so at that point, if I'm feeling that, then, yeah, we will move forward. I will take you out on a date and see what's really going on with you, just vibe with you, just want to talk to you, you know what I'm saying? In person. [00:11:27] Speaker B: Got it. [00:11:27] Speaker C: Because a lot of times when you meet people, a lot of times you meet them off the Internet, right? And Internet is a bunch of trickery. It is. [00:11:35] Speaker B: Because I've been using hella filters. [00:11:37] Speaker C: The filters and the angles. [00:11:43] Speaker A: This is a filter, right? Now, what you see is not what you get. [00:11:46] Speaker B: AI, no, I absolutely feel you. But that goes the same way with guys, too, because remember, I thought I was getting catfished on the date with the casino, the cupcake suit. And he was like, is you you? And I was like, is you you? And it was the wrong person. [00:12:01] Speaker C: Yeah, I need to hear about this. [00:12:03] Speaker A: She was on a blind date, kind of somebody she met on the Internet. And she walks up and there's a guy there who kind of fit the description. [00:12:10] Speaker B: Lucy was like. [00:12:11] Speaker A: She was like, is it you? And he was like, yeah, it's me. [00:12:14] Speaker B: He's like, is that you? I was like, well, yeah. [00:12:16] Speaker A: Actual date walked up. [00:12:17] Speaker B: He's like, the fuck is going on here? [00:12:19] Speaker A: Turns out the guy that she walked up on was also on a first blind date. She was getting cast. [00:12:26] Speaker C: I did. [00:12:26] Speaker B: Because I really did. And I was like, well, I mean, you are tall and black, but that's where it ends. And so then he's like, is you you? And I was like, well, I'm me. Are you you? And it was one of those moments like, yeah, I'm me. [00:12:40] Speaker A: Why didn't you all say names like, hey, so and so, right? [00:12:44] Speaker B: Because I was just like, hey. And I gave him some cupcakes and he took them shits. He didn't question it. And it was funny is that we drove past where the dude was actually on a date, and the chick that he was with fit my general description. Light skin with curly hair, a little thick, delicious. And I was like, okay, I see how this got missed. [00:13:09] Speaker A: Answer going back to her question, are you dating for purpose or right now just for fun? Because that changes the whole trajectory. [00:13:17] Speaker C: No, it really does. Unfortunately, I'm not currently dating. [00:13:22] Speaker B: Does that mean you're currently off the market? [00:13:25] Speaker C: Unfortunately. Okay, because I can't answer that question. And now I got somebody special in my life. Oh, I know. [00:13:33] Speaker A: Like, months in a line. [00:13:34] Speaker B: It's okay. You could be single. [00:13:38] Speaker C: I could be 100%. [00:13:39] Speaker B: Inbox me to see where we at. [00:13:43] Speaker C: Just to keep it a buck. I'm not dating currently right now. [00:13:47] Speaker A: So you are off the market. Oh, that's cute. [00:13:50] Speaker B: That is cute. [00:13:51] Speaker A: Okay, so then, with that being said, going into these lists, let's go talk about your first date being in your car. [00:14:00] Speaker B: It wouldn't work. I got locked in a car on a first date, so I'm not doing it. [00:14:04] Speaker C: The car is lit, though. No, never. [00:14:06] Speaker B: I actually have not told this story yet. I could share this story, because I haven't told this story. [00:14:11] Speaker A: First date, car story. [00:14:12] Speaker B: And it's not lit, so it's not me and this dude. We had been chitchatting online for about two and a half weeks or so. It turns out that we ended up going to the same university, so we had something in common. [00:14:23] Speaker C: Okay. [00:14:23] Speaker B: And so we finally get to the point where we go on a first date and we go to the movies, and all of a sudden, we have nothing to talk about. Where our conversation was great. Via text, via phone calls. Now that we're in person, he has nothing to say. So we're at the movies, and he's trying to fill up my skirt, getting all in between my legs, and I'm, like, batting him off, right? Because I was like, well, I didn't wear this jean skirt for you to do all that. And I feel where your head is at, but come on, now. And so he ended up driving me home. And when I got home, he locked the keys or locked the doors while we're both in the car. And it was one of those cars that don't have the locks. It's not like that. And so he starts jacking off and staring me dead in the eyes while he's doing it. And I was, wait a minute. Yeah, this is the first date, right? And I was like, I didn't know if I'm supposed to. [00:15:18] Speaker A: We can laugh about this now. [00:15:24] Speaker B: I almost died. [00:15:25] Speaker C: This is wild. [00:15:26] Speaker B: I almost died. [00:15:27] Speaker C: Check it off. In the first day. [00:15:29] Speaker B: But what's even crazier is to be. [00:15:30] Speaker C: Looked at dead in the eyes. [00:15:32] Speaker B: Like, while we're at the windows of her, and I'm like, do I break eye contact? Will you bust or not? Like, what are we doing here? And so I eventually let him finish. I let him finish because. [00:15:46] Speaker C: You was doing the Lord's work. He was doing the Lord's work. [00:15:49] Speaker B: I let him finish because I was not helping him. Right. So he was doing it himself. And I was afraid that if you are crazy enough on a first date to pull your shit out and just go to town while staring me in the eyes, what won't you do, right? So it's like, I'm not going to make it worse and embarrass you and then shame you and then all this. I'm like, I'm going to go ahead and let you finish, and then I'm going to go home. So, yeah, no, I don't get in cars on a first date. [00:16:14] Speaker A: So, in this conversation, we have mentioned at least three or four places that are on this list of places not to go on a first date. Okay, I'm going to read this list as quickly as possible. Cheesecake Factory, Applebee's, Chili's, Chipotle, Olive Garden, the movies, your house, any fast food chain, Buffalo Wild Wings, Wingstop, red lobster, a buffet, IHoP, Denny's, the gym, church, Starbucks, coffee dates, ice cream dates, family functions, movie night, Netflix, Hulu, and etc. Somewhere that requires a long drive, bowling, nightclubs, hookah bar, a bar for just drinks, waffle house or sports events. [00:16:46] Speaker C: Okay, so this list right here. Let me see this list. [00:16:48] Speaker A: Go ahead, go ahead. [00:16:50] Speaker C: We got to talk about this list for real. Cheesecake factory. I say cap, ladies love a cheesecake factory. [00:16:56] Speaker B: That brown bread go hard. [00:16:59] Speaker C: Remember when cheesecake factory first hit? [00:17:01] Speaker B: Everybody was pulling up to that part. [00:17:04] Speaker C: Come on, we got to stop playing with cheesecake factory. [00:17:07] Speaker A: And we thought Olive Garden was fancy. When cheesecake factory came out, that was, like, the new. [00:17:11] Speaker B: And they got mad variety, though. So, like, if you're in the mood for sushi. But she wants steak, yo. It's all under $20, for real. [00:17:19] Speaker C: That's crazy. Now. Applebee's, chilies, Chipotle. That's crazy. In 2023. [00:17:27] Speaker B: I feel like it's good depending on what age you are, though. So, like, if we're talking about. [00:17:30] Speaker C: I think this is. We won't say grown. Yeah, it's grown. That's crazy. Olive garden. Cap, come on, man. We got to stop playing with Olive. [00:17:39] Speaker B: Garden with them endless breadsticks. [00:17:41] Speaker C: Listen, man. So you telling me. You're telling me the italian trio is not a go? Come on, quit playing with me. Olive Garden is a go. Olive Garden was the spot, too, at one point. We got to stop playing. Everybody be acting like they didn't really rock with these spots. You know what I'm saying? The movies. Come on, now. We can't go to the movies. I don't even want. [00:18:04] Speaker A: But no, I'm agree with that one. [00:18:05] Speaker B: The movie. [00:18:06] Speaker A: The first date, though, because you don't talk. You're getting to know somebody. Because just like you said, you'd like to do the car in the house because you want to get to know somebody. A first date. [00:18:13] Speaker C: No, I'm going to tell you. I went on a first date to the movies with somebody. Right? Dope chick. And she talked the whole movie. [00:18:22] Speaker B: That would be me. [00:18:23] Speaker C: And she was lit the whole movie. I wasn't even mad. I actually was cool. I was cool with it. Like, the energy was good. And I really kind of got to know her because I got to see her personality. You know, I'm what saying. I was like, oh, she's dope. [00:18:32] Speaker A: But it's like a one off scenario. [00:18:35] Speaker C: But movies, I don't care which movies. First date can happen. [00:18:38] Speaker A: Depends on what movie theater we go to because I got the good chairs nowadays. [00:18:40] Speaker C: You're telling me a new Marvel drop. New DC drop. [00:18:44] Speaker A: We can't go hit the movies. [00:18:45] Speaker B: That'd be fine. [00:18:47] Speaker A: Before or after? Like if there's something that we do afterwards where we can actually. And I want. [00:18:52] Speaker B: I like the one where they bring the food to you, though, because I'd be sitting there eating that popcorn shrimp right there. [00:18:57] Speaker C: Studio one we talk about. That's cap, your house. Yeah, of course. The house is always clean. Any fast food chain. Yeah, that's wild. In 2023. Buffalo wild wings. [00:19:12] Speaker A: If it's a sports date. [00:19:14] Speaker C: I like buffalo wild wings, though. Come on, now. Fried extra hard. All flats, you get ten of them. [00:19:19] Speaker B: Two sauces, 15. [00:19:20] Speaker C: Three sauce. [00:19:20] Speaker A: Quit playing. [00:19:21] Speaker C: Don't play with buff. Wingstop. No, I don't rock a wingstop at all. [00:19:25] Speaker A: Because you don't like them, though? [00:19:26] Speaker C: Yeah, because the wings is too big. [00:19:28] Speaker B: Not. It's a whole chicken. He likes to drum it. [00:19:36] Speaker C: Farm chicken. Hold on. Red lobster. Red lobster. We got say cap, too, because of them. [00:19:42] Speaker B: Cheddar Bay biscuits. [00:19:50] Speaker C: A buffet in 2023 is insane. [00:19:53] Speaker B: Where are buffets? [00:19:58] Speaker C: Buffet is crazy. I'm with that. [00:20:00] Speaker B: Unless it's a seafood one. I've been some good, like, captain. They're not out here. [00:20:06] Speaker C: No, it was like a Sunday salty brunch date. I don't want it. [00:20:11] Speaker B: You'd like. [00:20:11] Speaker C: I don't want it. [00:20:12] Speaker A: Really? I can do casino resort. [00:20:15] Speaker C: No, this was first date, though. [00:20:16] Speaker A: I mean, I did have the first date at a resort zone. [00:20:19] Speaker C: You did? For sure. [00:20:22] Speaker A: It's not cap. I was really first date. For real? [00:20:25] Speaker B: I had went on a first date at a casino, too, with the dude that I thought was somebody else. [00:20:29] Speaker C: Oh, yeah. [00:20:30] Speaker B: We went to a casino. It was great. He gave me some money to play. I won. I gave him some change. It worked out. [00:20:36] Speaker C: And then it didn't have some good guys. [00:20:41] Speaker B: It didn't work out. [00:20:45] Speaker A: Maybe we should do more card dates. [00:20:47] Speaker C: There you go. And at the house. [00:20:49] Speaker B: And at the house. [00:20:50] Speaker C: Okay. Not for you. No. [00:20:53] Speaker B: Car dates. I ain't doing no parking lots. [00:20:56] Speaker C: You can't do none of that. So IHOP. Denny's. That's crazy. The gym. That's a good first date. I mean, if y'all both active, I can see that being something in commoning and going to go work out first. [00:21:09] Speaker A: Now, that's the content right there. I'll take the videos if you. [00:21:14] Speaker C: Maybe that's where y'all connect. That you never know. Church on a first date is crazy. [00:21:17] Speaker B: That is wild. [00:21:18] Speaker C: That's wild. Starbucks, cool. Coffee dates, cool. That's the same thing, but okay. Ice cream dates. I like that. That's cute. Family functions. [00:21:28] Speaker A: No, absolutely not. [00:21:30] Speaker C: No, because you might be too wild and embarrassing me. No. [00:21:34] Speaker B: Plus, I don't want you to know my family right now because your family. [00:21:36] Speaker A: Might be the one that embarrassed you. [00:21:39] Speaker C: If I walk into the family and uncle say, I see you, nephew. [00:21:43] Speaker B: Nephew. [00:21:46] Speaker C: I see you, nephew. You got to go home somewhere. That requires a long drive. I'm with that. Because I love to drive. [00:21:57] Speaker B: Hell, no. Because that's just a longer time to get kidnapped. [00:21:59] Speaker C: Well, your experience is, yes, anything with a car is just out. But maybe that gives it time for me to kind of have some dialogue with you. Have some conversation conversion. [00:22:09] Speaker B: However, I could do that if we're going to. Like a winery. That sounds like fun to me. [00:22:13] Speaker A: It just says it requires a long drive. So you could be meeting somebody somewhere. And if you got to drive, Charlie, than a certain distance, that might be the cut off. Like, it didn't say that in the car with the person. I'm just saying double that. [00:22:24] Speaker B: To me, that's more of like a second or third date that I'm willing to do a little bit of a distance. Because what if we don't have nothing to really talk about on a first date and now we got hour and a half there. Wait to get lit before I have something to say to your ass. [00:22:37] Speaker A: Oh, yeah, because then you can't drink. [00:22:38] Speaker B: All the way, right? [00:22:41] Speaker C: All right, see here. Bowling. Yes. I love a bowl with that. Bowling is fun. [00:22:46] Speaker B: I'll be getting so competitive. [00:22:47] Speaker C: Nightclubs on a first date is crazy. [00:22:49] Speaker B: That's stupid to me. [00:22:51] Speaker C: Even though I'm in the nightlife I enjoy. But not for the first date because. [00:22:55] Speaker A: Why would you take sand to the sandbox? [00:22:56] Speaker C: No, we ain't doing that. [00:22:57] Speaker B: So let's see if she get cracked. [00:23:00] Speaker C: Hookah bar. Now, mind you, that doesn't apply to us because we don't have a lot of hookah bars out here in northwest. [00:23:07] Speaker A: But like, maybe a cigar bar. [00:23:08] Speaker C: Yeah, something like that. Maybe just for the. [00:23:13] Speaker B: Oh, I've seen one. There's one over in Hollywood district that. [00:23:15] Speaker C: I. Yeah, that's the oldie goody. I used to go. That's the first time I went to. [00:23:18] Speaker B: I like that one. [00:23:19] Speaker C: One on a bar for just drinks. Yeah, that's cool. [00:23:22] Speaker A: So that conversation, I think that one was because people were saying that they want food. Like, you're not taking. Because there was another video out where a girl was like, we're not going to the bar for just drinks. I think that was the girl that ordered all that food at that goddamn restaurant. [00:23:38] Speaker C: She was slurping and stuff. [00:23:39] Speaker A: Because she was like, he invited her out for drinks, and then she ordered all that food, and then he left her with the tab because she was like, we're not just drinks. [00:23:45] Speaker C: Right, but that's crazy that you would expect a woman not to get no food. They drink and you know she going to bring a menu at. [00:23:53] Speaker B: But that's also why they serve food at bars. Like, you can't just go home on a slushy stomach. [00:24:00] Speaker C: Waffle house. That's crazy. [00:24:02] Speaker A: I had a first date at a. [00:24:02] Speaker C: Waffle house in Louisiana, and waffle House was nasty. [00:24:05] Speaker A: It was my first time going to a waffle house, and I was 18 in Louisiana. [00:24:10] Speaker B: They're gross. [00:24:12] Speaker C: That's age appropriate. [00:24:13] Speaker A: Yeah, right. [00:24:13] Speaker C: You know what I'm saying? Some of these will be like Applebee's. Course, when I was young, the dude wasn't age appropriate. [00:24:18] Speaker A: He was older. He was like, oh, I got a good one right here. [00:24:22] Speaker B: We don't get you these hard ass eggs. [00:24:28] Speaker C: I went to the Waffle house, girl. [00:24:29] Speaker A: It was lit was like this big. [00:24:33] Speaker B: It's all thin and right. [00:24:35] Speaker C: Waffles in everything. [00:24:37] Speaker B: Those are eggos. You can't tell me those are not just regular eggs with waffle house waffles. I don't like. [00:24:44] Speaker A: I fucks with that. [00:24:45] Speaker B: And I like them belgium ones. [00:24:47] Speaker C: See, now I don't like Roscoe's either. [00:24:50] Speaker A: I don't like Roscoe's chicken. I like their waffles, but I don't. [00:24:53] Speaker B: Think I've eaten there. [00:24:55] Speaker C: But that drink, that sunset drink is hitting, though. Sports events. I would say that's a go to. I think that's fun. [00:25:03] Speaker B: So, like, you take a girl on a first date to a blazer game or your house? One or the two, but no in between. The fuck? [00:25:10] Speaker C: Yeah. [00:25:12] Speaker A: Basically. [00:25:15] Speaker B: It'S either my house or the motor center. [00:25:17] Speaker C: There you go. Choose wisely. I'd rather my house. I got to pay the park and everything else. [00:25:23] Speaker A: You know what? A sporting event date is expensive as fuck. That's more expensive than actually going to a restaurant. [00:25:29] Speaker B: Wait. I ever told you about the dude that took me to a wizards game? And I thought it was going to be a whole experience until we had to climb all of the stairs to, like, the top rafter because the seats were, like, $1015 up there. I was winded and shit. [00:25:44] Speaker C: I was like, oh, God. You all went on the work tickets? The job gave him tickets. [00:25:51] Speaker A: I was like, I can't. [00:25:52] Speaker B: I said, like, it was all the. [00:25:55] Speaker C: Job that you went, yeah, I was looking around. [00:25:58] Speaker B: There was nobody around us. I thought I was. [00:26:04] Speaker A: If you want these tickets, respond to this email now. [00:26:06] Speaker B: Oh, my God. [00:26:07] Speaker A: I got an idea. [00:26:08] Speaker C: Hey, we had the game. [00:26:12] Speaker A: At least they had seats. And, like, our guests from season one. [00:26:14] Speaker B: Who went to a game with no. [00:26:16] Speaker A: With no seats. [00:26:17] Speaker B: No tickets? [00:26:17] Speaker A: No seats. [00:26:18] Speaker B: They had general admission to the building, not to the game. [00:26:21] Speaker A: And then they sold the make a wish kid seat. Season one had a guest. [00:26:28] Speaker B: Great. [00:26:30] Speaker C: They were sitting. [00:26:31] Speaker A: Folding chairs. So basically, this whole list you fucks with for a first date. [00:26:37] Speaker C: I mean, not all of them. [00:26:39] Speaker B: Not church, for sure. [00:26:40] Speaker A: No church. [00:26:41] Speaker B: Yeah. [00:26:42] Speaker C: No fast foods. We ain't doing no low tier restaurant. [00:26:45] Speaker A: So does a low tier girl get a low tier restaurant? [00:26:48] Speaker C: I mean, she can get it. [00:26:54] Speaker B: Coming to my house. [00:26:55] Speaker C: You know what? She can get the applebee's. Two for the $25 drink. [00:27:00] Speaker B: Yeah, they do. [00:27:00] Speaker C: Because sometimes I'll be, like, 25. I like their sampler platter. She going to get some Applebees. You know what I'm saying? Maybe some bowling. You know what I'm saying? Little hookah. We can do that. You know, saying a little ice cream. That's mid tier. I said low tier. [00:27:32] Speaker A: Okay, now, we thought about low tier. What is mid tier? [00:27:35] Speaker C: I don't know. Making this shit up. [00:27:40] Speaker B: You had a whole thing. [00:27:41] Speaker C: No. That's either your own or off. [00:27:43] Speaker B: Okay, so let me ask you this. Are you the kind of guy that would like a girl to take you on a date? [00:27:47] Speaker C: Okay, so here's my thing about that. Now, I've had girls offer to take me on dates plenty of times, and I do get flattered by that. But I like to take the first date. That's for me. [00:27:56] Speaker A: Just the first date, though. [00:27:56] Speaker C: But other dates after that. Yeah, we can. [00:27:58] Speaker A: Okay, you can switch off. [00:28:00] Speaker C: I don't think. Nothing wrong with that. [00:28:01] Speaker A: If a girl never offers to take you on a date and you've been dating for a while, is that a red flag for you? [00:28:06] Speaker C: That goes from top tier dating to low tier dating. Your restaurant game just changed. Yeah, we was going here now. We was at the El Gauchos. We was at the Morgan's. Now we had red robin. Bottomless. Fries, baby. [00:28:20] Speaker B: Let's go bottomless. Add all the fries, seasoning. [00:28:26] Speaker C: I believe in reciprocation. I believe in a relationship. If both of you all going hard, it makes it more lit. You know what I'm saying? It's just different. You know what I'm saying? And she investing. [00:28:37] Speaker B: So there was another list that kind of went around that talked about what women not to date. And so do you have that one? Backside. [00:28:44] Speaker A: Okay, there we go. [00:28:44] Speaker B: I'm going to have you have him read that one because you did a great job running that down. [00:28:49] Speaker A: Thanks. [00:28:49] Speaker B: Let's do it. [00:28:50] Speaker A: All right. [00:28:50] Speaker C: What type of women not to date? This is going to be interesting. First on the list, single mothers. Let's talk about it. [00:28:59] Speaker A: Fuck. [00:29:00] Speaker B: Now I'm still in the running right now. [00:29:02] Speaker C: I say that's cap. I say that especially at this age, 100% age appropriate. Maybe if you super young in your can see you, maybe even early thirty s not right now. I want to have no kids. But once you get a little up in age space, around my age, everybody got kids. That's just going to come with it. [00:29:21] Speaker B: I'm winning right now. I'm in there. [00:29:23] Speaker C: There ain't nothing wrong with that, man. Ain't nothing wrong with it. [00:29:26] Speaker B: No, I'm dateable according to that rule number one. [00:29:28] Speaker C: But also only thing that would make this a problem for me depend on who your baby daddy is. [00:29:32] Speaker A: Oh, they do say judge the person you're dating by the baby dad or baby mom. [00:29:37] Speaker B: But people make mistakes, so we can't judge them. But I would say more or less. [00:29:40] Speaker C: The involvement are headaches. I'm not dealing with that nigga. [00:29:45] Speaker A: That's true. [00:29:45] Speaker C: You feel me? Like I'm not dealing with no headache. [00:29:47] Speaker A: It might not be like I couldn't date you because you have trash taste. It's just that I don't want to deal with the situation. [00:29:52] Speaker C: I'm not dealing with that too much. He ain't got over you. It's weird. I ain't got time for it. Women with tattoos, that's a go for me. [00:30:01] Speaker B: Lee is out of there, too, twice. I'm still winning none. [00:30:07] Speaker C: That's a go. That's a go. No, I'm with the tattoos. Like, that's sexy as hell. I like that. I'm for that. So whoever put down the list, they're corny. Yeah, they don't want. Yeah, they don't want none. [00:30:17] Speaker B: They might be in a men. [00:30:19] Speaker A: Yeah. [00:30:20] Speaker C: No, everybody got tattoos. Let's see. Women who dress like this in public. [00:30:25] Speaker A: I think it's probably a picture that went with that. [00:30:27] Speaker C: Yeah, it must be. So let's move on. So sex workers only, fan girls, mattress actress, strippers, call girls, escorts, instagram models, bottle girls, et cetera. [00:30:39] Speaker B: Right. So can you date them or are they just fuckable? Like, are they date material? [00:30:43] Speaker C: I don't know. They're definitely dating material. Still, you don't discriminate. No. I'm going to tell you like this. I ain't going to lie. I say this all the time. I don't mind a girl that's been out in the streets, to be honest with you, as long as she about two to three years removed for hold them. I'm with it. I'm being honest. [00:30:59] Speaker A: I appreciate your hustle. You just can't be doing it still. [00:31:02] Speaker C: Right? I see how you got here and it's lit. I'm with that. You know what I'm saying? I mean, mattress actress, now. I don't know about that. Stripper. I'm cool with that, too. Call girl. Come on now. Escorts, no. Instagram models. I'm cool with that. And bottle girls. I'm cool with that. Those occupations wouldn't bother me, especially if you know how to handle yourself accordingly. I'm cool with that. Yeah, I'm cool with that. [00:31:23] Speaker A: But with that one being said, part of those jobs are to give the implication that you're single. [00:31:29] Speaker C: Exactly. [00:31:29] Speaker A: Give that fantasy. So does that bother you? Like, if you were to date somebody? Okay, so you're just secure. [00:31:34] Speaker C: I'm very secure. [00:31:35] Speaker A: No, that probably is part of your job, too, because doing party promotions, you got to look available. [00:31:39] Speaker C: You got to look available. And they don't get that. So when I meet chicks that are kind of do the same thing I do, we got more of an understanding, like when we talk about. Oh, yeah, I get it. I understand what you do. [00:31:49] Speaker A: Right. Okay. [00:31:50] Speaker C: It's all part of the game. So those is watching price me. Da da da da. Trust me. It's a method to the madness. Trust me. How do y'all get my inbox? You get no love, you know? So women with the ig page. [00:32:09] Speaker B: Yeah, that's stupid. Everybody has a. [00:32:11] Speaker C: You don't want nobody. You're single, bro. Back to wanting. There's no kuchi for you. There's none. Women with non pierced ears. [00:32:20] Speaker B: That's weird. [00:32:21] Speaker A: That is weird. [00:32:24] Speaker B: That just seems like a really random thing to say anyway. [00:32:26] Speaker C: Why is this even? [00:32:27] Speaker B: Why is that a thing? [00:32:28] Speaker C: Yeah, why is that even the. [00:32:29] Speaker A: Is it like it because you're not girly enough when you don't have pierced ears? [00:32:32] Speaker B: Wait, say it again. Women with non pierced ears. [00:32:35] Speaker C: Non pierced ears. [00:32:38] Speaker B: Okay, so basically he's saying, like, if. [00:32:41] Speaker A: You have piercings, but there's not like nose, nipple, or anything else, I'm out again. [00:32:45] Speaker C: Yeah, okay. Got it. Well, yeah. Ain't no wrong with that either. Not at all. [00:32:51] Speaker A: I'm not dateable according to this list. [00:32:54] Speaker B: Right. [00:32:55] Speaker C: Ain't around that at all. Let's see. Women with purple hair. Now, I will agree with that. The color is wild. [00:33:00] Speaker B: So my thing with the colors is this. I just don't like it when it looks like that shit needs to be touched up. If your purple is supposed to be like the color of your shirt, but it's coming and looking real washed out because you haven't touched it up, that's what I don't like. Like that cotton candy color. Let it be strong. Let it be intentional. [00:33:17] Speaker A: I think colors are right on the right people. If it doesn't fit your face or fit your style. I've seen some cute girls with colored hair. If they do it the right way. [00:33:25] Speaker C: But they always switch it up once they do color use, they do multiple colors. [00:33:28] Speaker B: Yeah. [00:33:28] Speaker C: And that's given personality disorder to me. [00:33:30] Speaker B: Okay. [00:33:31] Speaker C: I'm just sorry. [00:33:32] Speaker A: She said, do you want to date more than one woman? [00:33:33] Speaker B: Here you go. I can be green, purple, red. But you want. [00:33:37] Speaker C: When it comes to hair, I'm very simple for me. I like, you know what I'm saying? [00:33:40] Speaker B: Natural colors. [00:33:41] Speaker C: I like natural colors. I like natural styles. You know what I'm saying? If you do, do the extra. As long as you do it right, make it look right, it's cool. But your baby hairs are way down here and all that. [00:33:52] Speaker B: I don't like the wavy baby hairs that are right on the eyebrows. [00:33:55] Speaker C: I mean, they really be swooped and duped all down here. I can't do it. [00:33:59] Speaker A: Your eyebrows, it's weird to me, but. [00:34:01] Speaker B: I'm also like, yo, you're not even that. Where's the baby hair? Your shit ain't grown out by now. [00:34:05] Speaker A: That's like middle school hair. [00:34:06] Speaker B: Yeah. [00:34:07] Speaker C: And sometimes they'd be having a wiggle. You can see, like, the little net in the little part. [00:34:10] Speaker B: I don't like that either. I don't like it. [00:34:12] Speaker C: What's going on here? It's weird. All. No, it's weird. I can't, but, yeah, I love natural. I'm a big fan on that. [00:34:20] Speaker A: Like, natural, when you say natural, you mean, like, just nothing done to your hair? Nothing done your hair, like the froze and the dreads. [00:34:26] Speaker C: I prefer that. I prefer natural styles. Regular deglar smegler. [00:34:30] Speaker A: Got you. Okay. [00:34:31] Speaker C: Yeah, for sure. Women with whole friends. [00:34:37] Speaker B: Everybody got a whole friend. [00:34:38] Speaker A: And that sucks, too, because in college, a guy said, birds of a feather flock together. So if somebody that was in our group had an issue, then the whole group of dudes was like, fuck. The whole group of friends flock together. And I was like, that's weird. [00:34:54] Speaker C: I don't know. I think whole friends give the best advice to their friends. [00:34:58] Speaker A: Do tell. [00:34:59] Speaker C: Yeah, I think whole friends will tell you to stay with your nigga after you cheat. [00:35:03] Speaker B: And that's the best advice? [00:35:05] Speaker C: 100%. Because he made a mistake, girl. He made a mistake. You got a good nigga. You know what I'll be dealing with out here? Whole friends get the best advice. [00:35:13] Speaker B: No. [00:35:19] Speaker A: That'S good advice. [00:35:22] Speaker C: I'm here to represent all my brothers. [00:35:27] Speaker A: Who'S friends with price. He's saying, y'all cheat. [00:35:32] Speaker C: My guys are stand up guys. They faithful guys. You know what I'm saying? But hope friends get the best advice. [00:35:38] Speaker B: Okay. [00:35:41] Speaker C: And they've gave you some great advice, haven't they? [00:35:43] Speaker A: I don't know. [00:35:44] Speaker C: They've given me some great advice. [00:35:46] Speaker A: Maybe in the moment. [00:35:46] Speaker C: Sometimes they'll even tell you when to make a goal. And they give me like, girl, you was right. I'm glad I did that. I don't know. [00:35:52] Speaker B: I'm trying to think if I've given you any ho advice. I know. I've definitely tried to pimp you out, for sure. What you mean by pimp sure? [00:36:03] Speaker A: Because we're talking about pimping out my handicap. [00:36:06] Speaker B: Well, not only your handicapped, but I also be like, yo, I want you to let him fly you to DC. That's a trip for you, for us to hang out, get that money. [00:36:16] Speaker C: That's great advice. [00:36:17] Speaker B: See, you're welcome. [00:36:18] Speaker C: Great advice. [00:36:19] Speaker B: Okay. [00:36:19] Speaker C: That's why you come say the same exact thing to you, girl. You better get that money. [00:36:25] Speaker B: I do tell you to get that money. How do you think? Sometimes we need to pay rent and I'll be like, Lee relationship. [00:36:32] Speaker C: And she's so faithful and she's a goodie two shoes. She's going to say, don't do that. No, you don't know him like that. What if this happens? You fucking up a good in the corner. [00:36:45] Speaker A: Yeah. [00:36:46] Speaker C: All right, let's see. Models who market to men. [00:36:53] Speaker B: That's back to the sex work. [00:36:55] Speaker A: But I feel like female models are marketed to men. [00:36:59] Speaker C: Not even a model. Regular deglar Schmegler. Females do it. [00:37:01] Speaker A: That's very true. [00:37:03] Speaker C: Everybody do it. Everybody's posting for the opposite sex in most cases. Okay, I'm king of the thirst trap. I might got a thirst trap on my story right now. [00:37:16] Speaker A: Wait, hold on. So, funny story. So back a while, someone had asked me to do like some matchmaking some of my stories, right? The rule was send me the picture of the person that you want me to post as a secret admirer. [00:37:30] Speaker B: Yeah. [00:37:30] Speaker A: If that person sends me your picture, then you'll laugh. Connection, right? So this muffler got posted, and when I tell you the deacons blew up. Fuck that nigga. [00:37:44] Speaker B: I was like, so your picture got posted? Never to get was like, f him. [00:37:49] Speaker A: It was a lot of fm. [00:37:50] Speaker B: I was like, damn funny. I remember when he posted that, I was like, I wonder if he said. [00:37:56] Speaker C: He'S going to like, hey, listen, people be hurt, man. [00:37:59] Speaker B: No feelings got hurt. [00:38:02] Speaker C: The worst part, I won't say no. [00:38:04] Speaker A: Names, but I will say this. There was two dudes that I posted back to back, posted by two different people, right? Somebody hits me up and was like, you know, that dude is dating somebody right now. And the dude that she used to date is the one that's next after him. And I was like, I don't know. [00:38:17] Speaker B: I was just posting. [00:38:18] Speaker C: We was being messy. [00:38:20] Speaker A: People were being messy, I think. And they're using me to do it. And I got a lot of views from it, so I'm not mad. [00:38:24] Speaker B: That's funny. [00:38:25] Speaker C: It's content, okay? It's content. Okay. Women who travel regularly, this is a tough one. [00:38:34] Speaker A: I might be out on that. [00:38:35] Speaker C: This is a tough one, actually. [00:38:36] Speaker B: I want to hear what you have to say about it because we had a conversation with another guest who that's what she does for a living, is she travels a lot for work, and so she prefers to date folks that also travel. So for you, is that a go or a no? [00:38:49] Speaker C: I won't be able to see you as much. I think it's a time thing for me. I mean, quality time is one of my love languages. Yeah, that would be big for me. I couldn't do that if you travel too much. Unless I'm traveling with you. [00:39:02] Speaker A: I always think it matters. It depends on why you're traveling because I know a lot of people who travel and it ain't for work. And you'd be looking like, how are you doing all this travel? [00:39:10] Speaker B: Because they got folks flying them to DC. [00:39:14] Speaker C: Who going to DC? [00:39:17] Speaker B: No, I'm just speaking in general because I was like, when she comes and visits me, I'm trying to find someone to fly her to DC so we can hang out. [00:39:23] Speaker C: Okay, keep reading. Women who drink liquor regularly. Oh, yeah, I can't do that. What's considered regularly to me, if you're lit, drinking at least four days a week. [00:39:39] Speaker A: What about a nightcap? Like when you get off of work, you have a glass of wine chilling. [00:39:44] Speaker C: Depends on how much. If it's every day. Come on now. [00:39:47] Speaker B: Like, how stressful was your job? [00:39:49] Speaker C: Every day you got to hit the bottle. Like every day you got to hit the bottle. [00:39:53] Speaker A: I mean, I'm not saying I do it, I'm just saying I know people who get home and their wind down is wine, dinner, literally wind down. But they make dinner, they sit down with a little glass of wine and they watch tv to decompress. But it's not like they drinking a whole bottle. They might have a bottle for like a week or so or two. [00:40:11] Speaker C: That's too much for me. [00:40:12] Speaker B: Are you a drinker? [00:40:13] Speaker C: I'm a social drinker and I drink white. I'm a lightweight. Especially now. One drink hit like three. [00:40:21] Speaker A: I feel that one. [00:40:22] Speaker C: Right. You know, so it's different for me now. So, yeah, if you drink it like that, that's a problem for me, for sure. Yeah, you can keep it pushing, baby girl. Women with weak absentee fathers, that's a diving deep. [00:40:41] Speaker B: My daddy went there, now you ain't going to be there either. What did I do to you? [00:40:46] Speaker C: It depends on how deep the daddy issue is. [00:40:48] Speaker A: That's true. I mean, I can understand if it's a daddy issue, but maybe they're working on it. If they're like, they're going to therapy. [00:40:54] Speaker C: I don't know, because some of them really been spend about absentee fathers not having a daddy around and they haven't really healed from that yet. I mean, a lot of us got the same story, but at some point you got to heal from that and move on. [00:41:05] Speaker A: That makes sense. [00:41:06] Speaker C: So if you haven't got to that point yet. Yeah, that's a no for me. Go get some counseling. [00:41:14] Speaker A: It sounded really mean. [00:41:15] Speaker B: A lot of how they word. This is crazy. [00:41:19] Speaker C: Okay. Women who live alone, what if they got kids? [00:41:24] Speaker B: But if they live in with a man, like, well, that's not who you dating anyway. [00:41:31] Speaker C: That's weird, right? I think somebody does. Just trying to fill the list up to match that. It's giving filler right now because I don't know about that. Women with a party voice. What is that loud? Probably, yeah, that ratchet. [00:41:48] Speaker A: Like, oh, my God. [00:41:49] Speaker B: I don't like that. I don't even like that. [00:41:53] Speaker C: I like that. [00:41:54] Speaker B: You do. I feel like you need to sit on someone's couch. I've been raising eyebrow, like, hold on. You want them out your house on a first date. You want them loud and ratchet, twerking on the red light? [00:42:04] Speaker C: No. [00:42:05] Speaker A: Someone that enjoys that. [00:42:06] Speaker C: Not that at all. I don't know something about it. I want one with a little ratchet, 100%. Now, she don't have to be. It's not a requirement, but if you are, it ain't going to deter me. But if it's too strong, probably. But if it's just a little bit. [00:42:19] Speaker A: And she like that party voice all the time, is annoying as fuck all. [00:42:23] Speaker C: The time, for sure. But if you got your moments and that's just what you do because you and that, I'm cool with that. They don't bother me. [00:42:28] Speaker B: Okay. [00:42:28] Speaker C: Yeah, that ain't bad at all. Okay, let's see. Women on date naps. Okay. [00:42:34] Speaker A: Fuck. [00:42:34] Speaker C: So let's talk about it. [00:42:36] Speaker B: Yeah. You only know if they on a date nap. If that's where you found you're on there. [00:42:40] Speaker C: That's a fact, too. But we all know that's a haven for smashing. Like, come on now. [00:42:44] Speaker B: See, and that's so messed up because I'll be out there hoping that it's not. [00:42:49] Speaker C: No, you're going to find somebody to clap your cheeks. [00:42:55] Speaker B: Where are folks supposed to meet folks if they're not? Like. Because we get to a certain age where we're not always out on the scene unless it's our job, our profession to be on the scene like that. So it's like, well, where are folks meeting folks then? If it's not on apps, because we're not out like that. [00:43:10] Speaker C: No, it's definitely apps is the way. But it's just one of those things. You got to join the circus, meet a few clowns before you get there. [00:43:15] Speaker B: I've met a lot of clowns. [00:43:16] Speaker C: Yeah, that's just what it is. That's what it is. [00:43:19] Speaker B: It. [00:43:20] Speaker C: I mean, you can find some good people. I think everybody's found maybe one or two that was decent. Right. But for the most part, yeah. Everybody's trying to. [00:43:26] Speaker A: Depends on which. [00:43:27] Speaker C: Yeah, that's true. [00:43:28] Speaker B: I don't know. I've been on a few and they're all kind of trash, though. [00:43:31] Speaker A: Okay. [00:43:31] Speaker C: Yeah. But some have different quality. For sure. [00:43:33] Speaker A: Yeah. Because we went on the prison Bay episode where prisoners have dating. [00:43:38] Speaker C: Prison Bay episode. [00:43:39] Speaker A: We had an episode about Prison Bay, like, people who date people. [00:43:41] Speaker C: I gotta watch that. [00:43:45] Speaker B: The guilty. [00:43:47] Speaker C: Are you in the. [00:43:49] Speaker B: I dabbled. [00:43:50] Speaker A: She did. [00:43:50] Speaker C: You was love after locked up. [00:43:51] Speaker B: I was not. He's still locked up. [00:43:56] Speaker A: She had to let that go. They were afraid he was going to escape. [00:43:58] Speaker C: For real? You had a thug. For real? [00:44:01] Speaker B: Yeah, it became problematic. [00:44:05] Speaker A: Okay. [00:44:06] Speaker C: Thug love going on. Okay, I see you. All right, let's see. So, yeah, women on dating apps. That's not a no go for me. Got it. No, that's cool. I'm cool with that. All right. Women who have been on a fresh fit and fit. Is that another app I don't know about? Fresh and fit. [00:44:22] Speaker A: Fresh and fit. [00:44:22] Speaker B: Is that like a food service? [00:44:24] Speaker A: Food service. Women who have, like, our producers. [00:44:28] Speaker B: Yes, that's exactly what that is. [00:44:33] Speaker C: Hello, chef. [00:44:34] Speaker B: Oh, hello, fresh. [00:44:36] Speaker A: Because they can't cook. [00:44:38] Speaker B: First of all, I can't cook. [00:44:40] Speaker C: Makes sense. [00:44:41] Speaker B: That's not why I get it, though. [00:44:43] Speaker A: I mean, there's reasons. [00:44:44] Speaker B: It's cheaper than regular grocery for a. [00:44:46] Speaker A: While, and I use it to teach my kids how to cook because they can follow a recipe and it all comes pre proportioned. But it doesn't mean that I can't cook. But I understand the thought process. [00:44:54] Speaker B: And so for me, I'm like, listen, if all I need is one carrot for this recipe, I don't want to go to the grocery store and pay for a goddamn bag I don't need. So it was like a waste of food. Like produce. When you're, like, cooking for one. I was like, this is crazy. So I like those things because it's portioned out. [00:45:08] Speaker A: Yeah, that's fact. [00:45:09] Speaker C: I don't eat all because that's, like me now, because I eat so small to cook differently, and it's tough because everything coming big. [00:45:17] Speaker B: Like, I just like, you don't need it and stuff will go bad before you ever get to it. I'm like, that's a waste. Of my money. [00:45:21] Speaker C: Oh, no. I waste a lot of money. It's retarded. Okay. Women with lists. Yeah, that's a rare. [00:45:31] Speaker B: We on the whole list right here. [00:45:32] Speaker A: We got a whole list about women. About. A list about women. And if you have a list, you're not dateable woman. [00:45:39] Speaker B: Right? [00:45:39] Speaker C: But the reason why I don't like women list, because usually that list, they don't even meet that standard. [00:45:43] Speaker A: So it's just like, that's true. I was watching something. They were like, you're talking about, like, how do you know that you. The person's for you, right? And so they were asking, like, the person that you wanted. Didn't want you. Well, why? And so they asked the guy. They were like, well, describe the perfect person that you would want, right? And so he went down. He was named all these things. Oh, she's got this. She's this. She fits this description. She has this kind of job, whatever. And the person was like, now describe the kind of man she deserves. And then he was like, okay. And then she's like, now do you fit that category? And it was like, so you have an expectation that you don't even meet the qualification. [00:46:16] Speaker B: I was going to say. And not only that, sometimes, because I kind of had that same breakdown where the lady asked the guy to describe his ideal girl, right? And then it was like, but your ideal girl wouldn't be checking for somebody like you visually, intellectually, any of those things. And it's like, well, why do you think that person is going to be attracted to you just because you're attracted to them? [00:46:35] Speaker A: Right? [00:46:38] Speaker C: Yeah, he was big on that. I like Kevin Samuels, man. You seem like he had a lot of real talk. I swear to God, I ain't going to lie. [00:46:47] Speaker A: There were some things that he said. [00:46:48] Speaker C: That were valid, but people don't like hearing the hard truth sometimes. [00:46:51] Speaker A: It's the delivery, too. Be kind of fucked up. [00:46:54] Speaker C: That's funny that a woman says it's the delivery. When men, we say it to you all the time. How you all deliver it is messed up. I get what you say. But then when you do it the other way around. Oh, it's the delivery. Okay. Deliver with you all, too. Women, you all get mad. You all know how to communicate. [00:47:11] Speaker B: See? [00:47:11] Speaker A: And you're talking to two communicative ass people. I don't know about you, but I get told I'm masking because of how I communicate and the way that I think and process information. [00:47:19] Speaker B: I don't get told I'm asking at all. But I also don't communicate with anybody. Just anybody. The way that you and I are able to chitchat. I don't necessarily, the way that I. [00:47:29] Speaker A: Talk to you is how I talk to dudes. [00:47:30] Speaker B: Right. And I don't. [00:47:32] Speaker A: I don't talk to dudes as I will send them. Harsh. Not harsh in a text. I'll be like, okay, here's what happened and here's my points. I need you to respond so that we have a conversation about this. And they'd be like, but it's because I'm like, I don't want to do the whole page. I don't want to do like a book. [00:47:47] Speaker C: I don't want to do the whole thing. [00:47:48] Speaker A: I have done that, but I prefer not to. Let me bullet point this shit for you so we can get the point of it and have to have a conversation about that. [00:47:55] Speaker B: Right? [00:47:55] Speaker A: Yeah. I'm not going to make you read. [00:47:56] Speaker B: And I'd be tiptoeing around issues. I know for sure. I do that for sure. [00:48:00] Speaker C: You all do know, when you all be sending them long paragraphs, you all don't read them. [00:48:03] Speaker A: That's my point. So I'm going to send the bullet points. [00:48:05] Speaker C: I just look, as soon as I see. A lot of times my rare receipts is on. On my phone. That's my toxic. [00:48:10] Speaker B: That is fun. [00:48:11] Speaker C: No, so this is what I did when I know. I'm just going to hit the preview. Long one. [00:48:17] Speaker A: Can't do it. You know, I being petty when you see my red receipts, I turn that shit on purpose. [00:48:23] Speaker C: Yeah, mine stay on. [00:48:24] Speaker A: Yeah. No, not everybody gets that. So I do it on purpose so that I read stuff and leave it on a red on purpose. Because everybody knows that I don't have my red receipts on. So if you can see. [00:48:32] Speaker C: Okay. [00:48:33] Speaker A: I want you to know that I read. [00:48:34] Speaker C: Mine's off for the game. [00:48:35] Speaker B: Interesting. No, I should not leave mine off because I'm like, I don't even care. I don't want you to know that I've read your shit. I'm not paying attention for everybody else. [00:48:44] Speaker A: I do. There are particular people. My ex being one of me. I read your shit. [00:48:50] Speaker B: That makes sense. [00:48:52] Speaker C: But yeah. [00:48:54] Speaker A: Is that the end of the list? [00:48:55] Speaker C: No, we got a couple more left. So let's see here. Women who have been engaged. Fuck, I don't see nothing wrong with that either. [00:49:04] Speaker B: They knew that wasn't the right one. [00:49:05] Speaker C: Divorces. [00:49:06] Speaker A: Damn it. [00:49:07] Speaker B: Everybody is today my life. [00:49:10] Speaker C: All right, here we go. We got two of them here. Have some dialogue with american black women. [00:49:17] Speaker A: See, they were being petty as fuck. [00:49:20] Speaker B: Okay, so what are your thoughts? Especially because you reside in a city that is very few in black women, right. And therefore, that pool is smaller. Are you one that shies away from seeking out black women, or are you. I love who I love. What are your thoughts behind no. [00:49:41] Speaker C: One thing I will say, and I hope nobody takes no offense to this, but I would never put a crown on anything less than a black queen, period. [00:49:46] Speaker B: Okay. [00:49:47] Speaker C: That's just for me. You know what I'm saying? I seek out black women. That's what I choose to date. That's my preference, and that's where it's at. Now, would I date other races? Absolutely. Have I? Absolutely. But as far as making it my woman. And, no, that will never happen. All that I can do is touch up clappers and that's it. [00:50:06] Speaker B: Clappers. Clappers, though. No, I have a guy friend that's like that, too, where he admires lots of women. He thinks that everyone is beautiful, whatever. But he's told me flat out, he's like, if she ain't a black woman, I'm not actually dating her. Seriously. I'm not bringing her home like that. [00:50:21] Speaker C: It never happened. [00:50:22] Speaker B: And I remember he had a mad crush on this girl that was just a completely different ethnicity. And he was like, yo, she's bad. She is bad. She's smart, she's educated. She's funny. She's all these things. And she was kind of in him, too. And he's like, but at the end of the day, he's like, I know that's not what I want. [00:50:37] Speaker C: It's not. [00:50:37] Speaker B: And he's like, so, nah, that's it. [00:50:40] Speaker A: Okay. [00:50:41] Speaker C: It's a moment in time for us. That's it. [00:50:43] Speaker A: Understood. [00:50:45] Speaker C: But to put that on there is wild. [00:50:47] Speaker A: That is. But it's weird. Like, to put it on the list is bad, but to have a thought is not. Well, I mean, to say don't date black women is bad. [00:50:55] Speaker B: Yeah, but I mean, I feel like there's a lot of dudes that are like that they don't want to date black women because they feel that they're aggressive. [00:51:01] Speaker A: We were having this conversation earlier off. [00:51:03] Speaker C: Camera, but when I say black women. [00:51:05] Speaker B: They specify american black women. Well, yeah, because there's other black cultures. [00:51:09] Speaker C: Because I've dated an African. [00:51:12] Speaker B: Okay, how was that? [00:51:14] Speaker C: She was dope. Okay. [00:51:16] Speaker A: Now, was she first generation american, or. [00:51:20] Speaker C: Was she actually, she was born there and then moved here when she was young. Okay, but if you met her and talked to her, she's like, very american, though. Got you. She got the accent still, but very american. Okay. But she was dope. And her mentality towards how she dealt with her men is more cultural based, you know what I'm saying? And it was dope for any man. You were like, oh, yeah, that's definitely wifey material. [00:51:45] Speaker A: 100% got you. [00:51:46] Speaker C: Now, african american women, you ain't going to check all the boxes, but long as you check enough. [00:51:53] Speaker A: Goddamn. [00:51:54] Speaker C: And I hate to say that, but it's the truth. And ain't nothing wrong with that, because I was raised by african american woman, you know what I'm saying? So certain qualities I look in a woman that even the girlfriend didn't have that I'm like, I do need that. You know what I'm saying? But, yeah, to put that on her is crazy, but I can see the difference, for sure. But we ain't never turn our back on our queens. We rocking with them, you know what I'm saying? We put them on a pedestal, and that's what it is. [00:52:18] Speaker A: Okay. [00:52:19] Speaker C: 100% rise up, queen. Okay. [00:52:21] Speaker B: Grand rising. [00:52:22] Speaker A: Grand rising, people. [00:52:26] Speaker B: Oh, yeah, please. Are you a good morning beautiful? [00:52:29] Speaker C: No, listen, I talk about them niggas, I swear to God, dim niggas is the worst. [00:52:38] Speaker B: We literally hate the good morning, beautifuls. [00:52:41] Speaker C: I'm glad you all saying that because. [00:52:43] Speaker A: I'm like, man, we've gotten dogged out for saying that. We don't like the good morning beautiful test. Hate it. Yeah. [00:52:49] Speaker B: Because dudes will be like, well, what are we supposed to say to you then? You know, you ain't beautiful. [00:52:54] Speaker C: Heard that a thousand times. My guy, like, you gotta come with something a little different. You gotta be a little more creative than that. My guy. [00:53:01] Speaker A: That part. [00:53:01] Speaker C: Come on. And grand rising. Good morning, queen. I'm not him. Listen, anybody in relationship do the niggas you got to look out for every day they do them is the ones you got to watch out for, right? [00:53:17] Speaker B: Nobody wants. [00:53:17] Speaker A: And they'd be copying, pasting that, good morning, beautiful. [00:53:19] Speaker B: To like everybody. It ain't for me. [00:53:23] Speaker C: It's bad. Listen, stay away from them guys. I'm telling you. Last one on the list here. Women raised in the west, first of all, west side. [00:53:34] Speaker B: Okay. [00:53:36] Speaker A: Listen, what is it about west coast women? [00:53:40] Speaker B: I always hear that, well, at least the dudes I deal with on the east coast, they love us west coast women because we're very different characteristically than east coast girls. They're a little bit more aggressive. They're much faster paced with a lot of things shorter. So they think we're a little bit more easy going, easier to talk to. I've always had good feedback. [00:53:59] Speaker A: We're not southern women. [00:54:00] Speaker B: Southern women, no. [00:54:01] Speaker A: I think have the priority. [00:54:03] Speaker B: I don't even know. [00:54:04] Speaker A: I don't know. I don't ever hear nothing bad about southern women. Like, the good company, the good vibes. [00:54:09] Speaker B: They can cook. [00:54:10] Speaker A: They're family oriented. All those things that are traditionally, stereotypically southern. [00:54:14] Speaker B: Right. [00:54:14] Speaker A: Even, like, we hit the southern men, the southern gentlemen, that hospitality. So I feel like the coastal people get the short end of the sticks because they got mad aggressive. You got dinghy and ditzy. [00:54:25] Speaker B: We get dinghy and ditzy. [00:54:26] Speaker C: Well, you got to. Most of that is a reflection of african american culture. Right? So. And where it was embedded at is in the south. So everybody moved from the south, migrated out, and the further they migrate out, the less of you see of that. [00:54:39] Speaker A: It waters down. [00:54:40] Speaker C: Yeah, it waters down. So you see a lot of know. I don't know. But I love my west coast women. I'm sorry. Especially northwest women. [00:54:49] Speaker B: I tell people all the Pacific, northwestern, we win in. [00:54:52] Speaker C: Listen, man, I tell people all the time. Just in general, people from the northwest, in just. We got dog about us. You know what I'm saying? Like, we can go anywhere if you look at it. Look at anybody who left the northwest and west, and they thrive to the right. They're doing it because, you know why? Because we live in an area where we don't get opportunities. We have to create them. So when you go down south, you got major people helping you. Just networking. So we're like, oh, I already got the dog. I know how to go get it. [00:55:16] Speaker A: But then you get that whole crab in a barrel mentality where everybody's trying to make it because they got to. [00:55:20] Speaker C: But seeing the south is a little different. They really show love, though. They find you into something. Oh, there's a network for that. Let me hit you over here. We don't have that. It's doggy dog out here. So you got to be. You see what I'm saying? So that's why when you come to the northwest, you go somewhere else. You'd be like, oh, this is a breeze out here. We got to fight for everything. Ain't no opportunities. One tooth, through the crack, anywhere we go. And if you don't fit the bill, you're not getting in. [00:55:47] Speaker A: I cannot. Oh, my God. Okay, so if you had to make a list, what would your list be? Of the ideal woman, that you're dating somebody. So if you could. I don't know, describe that person. Or if you were to your ideal person, what would that list be? [00:56:03] Speaker C: Man, that can go, it's different. And I'll say this, and I'll answer your question. It's different for me because I see different things in different women. [00:56:11] Speaker A: Okay. [00:56:11] Speaker C: You know what I'm saying? I don't have a general list. My taste can go from here to here. I don't have just a set. Taste got you. What attracts me and what catches me about you that why you can see some of my women. I might got a hard three and a ten plus, you never know. But she got all this stuff I'm loving about her. You know, I'm what saying, so I'm a rock with her. You know what I'm saying? But then. [00:56:39] Speaker A: Okay, so before you get to your list, if you have like a solid three, because I know a lot of guys do this. There's a lot of guys in Portland. [00:56:44] Speaker C: Who will do this. [00:56:45] Speaker A: They'll date women behind the scenes that they would not bring in public because of their image. Right. You have a very public image that people expect you to date a certain kind of woman. So if you talk about you date hard threes, are these the women that you are presenting to the public as who you are? [00:57:00] Speaker C: I've been in the public with a hard three. [00:57:02] Speaker A: Really? [00:57:02] Speaker C: And I've been 100%. [00:57:03] Speaker A: Okay. [00:57:04] Speaker C: No, so my thing about it is if it's a situation, nine times out of ten, I've only been in a situation a couple of times where I didn't bring somebody out in public, okay. And the reason being is because of their insecurities. You know what I'm saying? So their insecurities. So it was like, okay, I'm not going to put you in that situation because of our private conversations we've had. [00:57:25] Speaker A: Right. [00:57:25] Speaker C: So, okay, we'll move like this. I've only been in that situation a couple of times. Anybody else that I've ever had that problem and I've been in public with you probably would be the ideal person you think I'd be with. But I fuck with them. And if I fuck with you, I. [00:57:37] Speaker A: Was going to say, because I feel like certain people, you'd be like, I want to be seen in public with this person because he going to make me look cool, whatever. [00:57:44] Speaker C: No. Okay. If something about you that I'm rocking with, I'm rocking with you. We rock. And I don't care about none of that. Because the thing about it, nobody going to say none. And if they do, they're going to be say behind your back and say to your face to leave it at that. We're going to leave it on the flow, you know what I'm saying? And I'm going to do me and they'll come and tell me, oh, you all look good. [00:58:01] Speaker A: Thank you. [00:58:03] Speaker C: Right, exactly. I don't care about none of that. If I fuck with you, I fuck with you. We out. We out. Simple, easy breezy. [00:58:10] Speaker A: Okay, so if you had to make a list, what would the list be? [00:58:13] Speaker C: She has to be a great communicator. That's number one for me. And that's just through life experiences that made that number one great communicator. A very clean person, confident, can cook, trustworthy. A lady in the streets. [00:58:39] Speaker B: I know, right? [00:58:40] Speaker C: Okay. You know that's coming. [00:58:42] Speaker B: A lady. [00:58:45] Speaker C: I need you to be presentable. [00:58:48] Speaker B: I know she's going to be a freaking the sheets because your first date is at the dang house. [00:58:52] Speaker C: So we got to find, we got to check boxes. But overall, outside of all cliche things, I mean a solid individual. One thing about me, I don't like somebody who is not solid or somebody who's a manipulator, you know what I'm saying? I can't get jiggy with that. And to be honest with you, the only two things that will really turn me away from somebody, which is be somebody who's a liar and a thief, there was two things on anybody I can't get jiggy with. But outside of that, it's cliche for me. All the things everybody look for. For the most part, again, I see different things of different people. So they might not have everything I want, but these things are strong enough for me that I like so we can run. [00:59:36] Speaker A: Yeah, sounds like more energy than superficial type. [00:59:39] Speaker C: Definitely energy for me. Definitely energy for me. [00:59:41] Speaker B: And I like that because usually a lot of people, the top of their list is all characteristics of physicalities. So it's nice to hear that you're. [00:59:48] Speaker C: Now, let me say this. [00:59:50] Speaker A: Okay, here we go. [00:59:54] Speaker C: Now, I do say a hard three, but hard three, she can still be cute and decent, right? Okay. But if you look like you licking windows, I can't fuck with you. So now what that looked like. I know you about to ask me. I don't know what licking windows mean. You just look real slow. [01:00:09] Speaker A: Did something that, it was about to get us canceled. So I had to hold myself together. [01:00:13] Speaker C: Because I'd be acting if you got a slow look about you. I can't do it now, mind you. And I get it I might get hit for this, but it's cool. But I'm being honest. If you look like you're a little slow, I'm cool. I can't do it. Now, there are some women who are not slow, but they got that look and I just can't do that. No, for me, because I'm too immature for that. That's what I'm saying. You look like that. I'm laughing at you. I'm laughing at you. If we have a sexy. You do a certain look. It's comedy central in the room right now. [01:00:48] Speaker A: Don't look back at it. [01:00:50] Speaker C: Please don't look back. Baby, keep your head in the bed. [01:00:52] Speaker B: Put this bag right here over your head. [01:00:55] Speaker C: I'm just saying. All jokes aside, though, if you got a super weird look to you, it's just not going to work for me. [01:01:02] Speaker A: And it's weird being in Portland because everybody got a unique look to them here. [01:01:06] Speaker C: They do. Outside of me. But yeah, you right. [01:01:09] Speaker B: He said. [01:01:09] Speaker A: He said I'm normal and fine, I'm good. [01:01:12] Speaker B: They broke the list. [01:01:13] Speaker A: What would it be? Don't ask me questions. [01:01:17] Speaker B: I know, right? I don't know that I have a list. I'm pretty broad. My list goes down to stability. Do we have things to talk about? Are you funny? Do you find me funny? Because I find myself hilarious. And if you ain't going to laugh at me, then that's tough for me. Let's see. [01:01:36] Speaker C: She got the laugh of her. [01:01:37] Speaker B: Yeah, laugh at this shit. [01:01:42] Speaker C: That wasn't funny. [01:01:44] Speaker B: We going to work on that fun, baby. But no, like a steady job, family oriented, and good relationship with their family. Those are the top things I'm looking for. I mean, it's nice if they're tall, but I've dated tall and short. I've dated large and small, light and dark. So that's not so much my thing. But I mean, there's lots of things that are attractive about many different people. So it's more or less, again, that stability, a good home life relationship with your family and friends like that. Yeah. What's your list? [01:02:18] Speaker C: Before, you said I want to pick back on something. You said that I think that I've picked up as I've gotten older. When I look at women is the family. How is your family? You know what I'm saying? Because as you get older, you start dating a little more intentionally and you're looking more for. Okay, now I'm looking for my partner and I got to look at how your family is. And that could be a turn off. I've been there before. When I got to the family, I was like, oh, no. [01:02:40] Speaker A: Yeah. [01:02:43] Speaker B: I've met guys that seem nice, but they have no relationship with their children. And I'm like, why? You created them. How are you not a part of their life? That's weird to me. [01:02:53] Speaker A: Situations where it's understandable if given a specific scenario, but you've told, you know. [01:02:58] Speaker B: The situation I'm talking about. It was all his kids, like, all. [01:03:01] Speaker A: The kids, and it wasn't the same person. [01:03:02] Speaker B: Right. So at some point, it's not the baby mom. It's you that's not trying to step in and be present. [01:03:08] Speaker C: I feel bad for that brother. That's sad. [01:03:11] Speaker B: It's that. And then it's also, like, how you treat your mom. I don't want to hear no dude telling his mom to shut the f up. I mean, you may not agree with what she's saying, but that's still your mom. [01:03:24] Speaker A: Yeah. My list. I'm a conversationalist, so if you can't hold a conversation, I'm turned off instantaneously and not superficial conversation. Like, I need conversation that changes my thought processes, that invokes some things that we can go a little bit deeper sometimes. So if it's not on that level, I'm good. Yeah. It's got to be some ambition. I mean, I'm not looking for someone who's constantly changing hustles, but you got to have a hustle. You know what I'm saying? You got to have a drive, and you got to have a dream that you're working towards actively, and that's reachable. You know what I'm saying? Because we can have a dream, and then you working towards it the whole life, and you ain't getting away. [01:04:03] Speaker B: That's just a dream, that part. I need goals, not dreams. [01:04:06] Speaker A: Some of those smart goals. Smart goals, right. [01:04:10] Speaker C: So, you say you're not dating a 44 year old Soundcloud rapper. [01:04:14] Speaker A: Dang. [01:04:16] Speaker B: Maybe if that's one of his jobs but not his only job. [01:04:19] Speaker C: Is that even a job? [01:04:21] Speaker B: I don't know. I don't know what it is. I thought that was a real thing. [01:04:24] Speaker A: It sounds hypocritical because I'm over here with the podcast, and it's not a job. [01:04:28] Speaker C: But you have a job. [01:04:29] Speaker B: Right? But I do have a job. So that's what I said. It's like, if that's not his only thing, that's his passion. [01:04:33] Speaker A: If it's a passion project. But you have stability in other areas, and you're okay with that. Cool. Okay, hold on. Because I used to do music promotions. If your music is trash, hell fucking no, I can't do it because I'm way too honest. I will tell you that shit. And then I'm going to be breaking hearts. Yeah. So if you're a trash rapper, then no, but yeah. [01:04:57] Speaker B: No. [01:04:57] Speaker A: There's got to be a level of stability. I got to have some security and then meets my needs. Like, if you're intuitive and inquisitive enough to know what I want and you can meet them. Cool. And that means, like, knowing my love languages, paying attention to the things that I like. Cool. I'm not spectacular in glitz and glamour. I like simple shit. But if you don't even know the simple shit. Yeah, I don't want it. That's it. We talked a lot about stuff. We. Over here. I feel like we need to have a. Well, never mind single. Say we need to have a singles game where we start. Pick. [01:05:30] Speaker C: Listen, man, listen. I'm single. [01:05:32] Speaker B: I'm single for the camera. [01:05:34] Speaker A: You should host a singles event and let us host it. [01:05:37] Speaker C: Why not? That'd be. Do it. [01:05:38] Speaker A: Okay. Price and dirty roses. [01:05:42] Speaker C: It'd be dope. [01:05:43] Speaker A: You heard it here first. It's happening. It's happening. But Price, DJ Price, Miyagi. Eric, where can people find you if they want to? [01:05:51] Speaker C: Definitely. So you can find me at Instagram. All the pages get ready. Get your pen and pad ready. All right, let's go. At DJ Price. That's DJ P-R-Y-C-E underscore, PDX. At Instagram, Price Harris on your Facebook. If you're on there, Twitter, the same thing. DJ pricemiyagi at Twitter. And also ww, djpricemiagi.com. So, yeah, you can find me there. Can we talk podcast on YouTube, also on Apple and Spotify as well. So, yeah, just follow me. I'm who you want to follow. Trust me. [01:06:33] Speaker B: So I can be reached, of course, on all platforms with Dirty Roses podcast, as well as our website, our Instagram, our TikTok Facebook page. And then if you want to find me specifically, I can be found on Instagram at Nick B. Underscore Nick B. That's Nick with a K. And Miss Leelery, where can we find you? [01:06:50] Speaker A: You can find me everywhere. 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